• Look for opportunities, large and small, to tell your child through word and action that you are proud of him or her. We must correct when needed, but strive to eliminate unnecessary negative comments.

• Smile often at your child! This simple effort sends the message to your child that he or she makes you happy and is appreciated and loved.

• Catch your child being good. Don't just take the position that he or she is supposed to be good. Let your child know that you noticed him or her being good. This is not only an excellent way to encourage appropriate behavior, but it also boosts a child's self-esteem to know that he or she is doing something right and you appreciate it.

• Don't overlook the opportunities to give a pat on the back, a quick squeeze or an arm around their shoulder. These are sure ways to demonstrate your approval and encouragement.