Our parents have been symbols of strength and stability to us. We could never imagine them growing old. But then reality strikes.

What responsibility do we bear as their children? Especially in the Church of God, as Christians, do we "owe" them anything in their old age? How should a Church member view his responsibility toward his aging parents? What possible options are there?

In part 1 of this series, we will look first at the biblical foundation.

In the Ten Commandments, we are commanded to honor our fathers and mothers. Does this honoring cease once the child is an adult? I should say not! Christ encountered those who denied help to their parents by claiming religion as an excuse (Mark 7:10-12). Christ didn't view this excuse very favorably! Honoring those who are senior citizens is something God expects, and neglecting them brings shame (Proverbs 16:31; 17:6; 19:26; 20:20; 23:22).

Some wonderful examples are given in Scripture of those who cared for the aged of their families. Joseph was one who had a deep affection and concern for his father. Note Genesis 47:12.

Ruth set an outstanding example of one who cared for a relative-in-law. Ruth 1:8 tells us she dealt kindly with her mother-in-law. Ruth felt such a responsibility and devotion that she would not return to her own people (Ruth 1:14-16, 18). She was blessed by God for her care and devotion.

The real clincher is found in 1 Timothy 5:4, 8: "But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show piety at home and to repay their parents; for this is good and acceptable before God…But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever."

Pretty strong words! But does this mean we ought to devote our lives to looking after aging parents? Should we bring them to live with us? Is there a right balance?

In part 2 we'll look at how the aging parents might be feeling about this.