Is Honesty a Rarity?

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Not long ago I made a stop at our local hardware store.  After finding the items I needed, I walked toward the checkout counter to pay for them.  The woman working the register had just walked away and her manager was taking her place.  While we engaged in pleasantries he took a bag from the counter and placed my items inside, along with the receipt.

At home, I opened the bag to find my items and their receipt along with several smaller items and their receipt.  The bag might have been left on the counter by a previous customer or it may have been a mistake due to the change in register operators.  Regardless of why, I was now in possession of items that did not belong to me.

The receipt in question showed the items to be valued at a little over $2.  Depending on where you live and your economic situation that may or may not be a lot of money.  Luke 16:10 came to mind.

"Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much.”

If God is to find us trustworthy, we have to prove it to him through the small things in life.  A few days later I returned to the hardware store with the bag of items and the receipt.  The manager and a young lady, apparently in training, were behind the counter.  I explained the situation and placed the bag on the counter. 

The manager thanked me for my honesty.  As we continued to discuss how the items came into my possession he thanked me numerous times.  As I was leaving the store, the young lady called out behind me, “Not many people would have bothered bringing this back, thank you for your honesty.”

We live in a world where honesty is a character trait that is not readily found, and obviously can catch people by surprise.  While I did what was expected of me by God, it is apparent that I was seen as going above and beyond what is considered to be normal.

In Matthew 5:14 we are told that the people of God are the light of the world.  Our actions may not always be the norm, but when our light shines through our actions, the world does see it.  We offer a glimpse of His way of life and like a lighthouse we can point the way to a better path.  When we are faithful in even the small things, it does not go unnoticed.

Be faithful in the little things, and let your light shine. 

You may find the following links to be helpful in your study of what it means to be a faithful Christian and a light to those around you.

Making Life Work

You Can Have Living Faith

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Comments

  • Norbert Z

    Thank you for your concern Gayle. Such things are part of the Christian experience, Rom 7:15 "For I don’t understand what I am doing. For I do not do what I want – instead, I do what I hate."

    Here's a question, should readers of the Bible also feel sorry for the apostle Paul?

    The way I see it, having a pure honesty as a predominant characteristic in a Christians personality is something that is rare enough to be separately acknowledged.

    John 1:47 Jesus saw Nathanael coming to him, and said of him, Behold an Israelite indeed, in whom is no guile!

  • APK

    There are a lot of new morality types who may feel honesty is about as important as chastity.

  • David L. Nunn

    In my view, most people in America are basically honest so long as it does not hurt too much to be so. If the personal price of honesty is perceived to be high however, most people will steal and lie in order to avoid the pain. The 10 Commandments makes any dishonesty a sin, and this includes petty thefts and so called "white" lies. In God's eyes, an honest person is one who will be honest even when it hurts. Ps. 15:4.

    Sherrie, thanks for setting an important example in the little things. I enjoyed your post.

  • KARS

    Hi Norbert,
    In all honesty we struggle with ourselves everyday. Why even one of the apostle's of Jesus Christ call himself wretched. He said he kept doing the things he didn't want to do but in his heart and mind he want to do what was right. He fought with himself daily and was happy that through Jesus Christ we are offered daily repentance. We keep working on the Ten Commandments of God our Father until we bring it under control with the help of His Holy Spirit that we recieve after faith, repentance, baptism, and the laying on of hands for the gift of the Holy Spirit. Without these key elements we will fall short for we cannot do it alone.

  • Gayle

    I'm sorry to hear that honesty is a struggle, I live near a
    Small town and I know most would have returned the items back
    To the store. I'm in health care and work with young and old, I would not
    Be dishonest or treat anyone dishonestly, and I myself have not been
    treated that way by them that I know of. Maybe I'm wrong and everyone is
    Not basically honest, I live in a very small part of the world.

  • jesmosey

    I think, most of the time, it’s easy to tell the truth. So it’s easy to say most people are honest. Especially in the western world, where life is relatively simple, questions are easy, and the truth typically won’t kill you.
    Still, polite lies are common. You know, “yeah, your hair looks nice” or “no, you don’t need to loose weight”, or maybe someone tells you they have dinner plans because they don’t want to seem rude and tell you they just don’t want to hang out because they want some alone time. And then we have a tendency to say, oh, that was just them being nice. Was it? These things aren’t really hurting anybody, so we say they aren’t a big deal. Is that true? Or are we lying to ourselves and each other about what honesty really is? Does accepting these lies weaken our definition of what honesty is?
    I met this lady a few months ago who was trying to figure out how to answer her kid’s question about did the Easter Bunny live in the North Pole with Santa without telling her kid that none of that stuff is real. We can call that cute, and say it’s just a story we tell kids. But is it really helping that poor kid who is trying to develop a conceptual model of how the world works?
    If we say all that lying is okay, I think it makes it easier to justify other types of lying. Like people lying about hidden costs in service plans, extra points on your mortgage, and borrowers telling lying to lending companies about why their credit just looks bad. We can say, well, that person is just trying to put food on the table, or put a roof over their kid’s head, or maybe we disconnect the person from the company they work for and blame the company. I do this. But is that really being honest about it? Because if we let those people off the hook, the next ones we run into are the ones who have plenty of money but want more, so they’re willing to tell you things like the product they’re selling is perfectly harmless when there’s probably a good chance it could kill you. Then there’s the problem that, as a society, we accept lies and tell them to each other for years, like, “second hand smoke doesn’t hurt you” because we’re too lazy to want to deal with the inconvenience and discomfort of going outside to smoke.
    I think there are things it’s easy for people to be honest about, but I’m not sure that our inclination as individuals to always be honest is one of those things.

  • D. Miller

    I agree with Norbert. Most folks are dishonest. But what I find so amazing is the numbers of people that don't consider so many things to even be a question of honesty...such as not telling the truth, or covering up things they know would shed a bad light on themselves or their groups. It's all dishonesty and it's how almost everyone behaves.

  • Norbert Z

    Gayle,

    I'm not sure how someone can prove that most (a majority) people in thise world are basically honest. From my experience, I can say most people that I have worked with are basically dishonest. Even I struggle with it infrequently. Does that make me basically honest or dishonest?

  • Gayle

    I believe most people are basically honest.

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