These helpful communication tips come from Building a Strong Marriage Workbook, a supplement to the Prepare/Enrich program by Life Innovations, Inc.

• Look for the good in your partner and give him/her a compliment.
• Praise your partner as much as possible.
• Take time to listen to each other.
• Listen to understand, not judge.
• Use active listening, which involves summarizing your partner's comments before you share your reactions or feelings.
• Share your feelings by using "I" statements (I think or I feel).
• When issues arise, avoid blaming each other and seek solutions.
• Give your relationship the same priority and attention you gave it when you were dating.