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“At least I'm not an adulterer.” “At least I'm not a liar.” “At least I'm not a murderer.” “At least I'm not a crooked politician.” The list could go on and on.

What are we really saying when we say those things to ourselves?

“[Jesus] spoke this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others: ‘Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, “God, I thank You that I am not like other men—extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.” And the tax collector, standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, “God, be merciful to me a sinner!” I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted’” (Luke 18:9-14).

Maybe we need to be careful not to justify ourselves by comparing ourselves to other people. Christ is the standard we are to judge ourselves by, and we fall woefully short of that standard. We can only see some of the struggles people are having. We can't see their hearts. God is their judge. We can judge what is right or wrong in their actions, but how can we judge someone else when we don’t know their hearts? We can’t.

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  • gonzolupe

    well written Mary Jo. I've been talking to others just the other day about this.

  • Decaturgirl

    Thank you, Lupe. It's my desire that talking about some of the lessons I've learned (and still learning) will help others avoid the suffering that comparing ourselves to others causes.

  • Don Hooser

    Important point well stated! Thanks, Mary Jo.

  • Decaturgirl

    Thank you, Don. I've been guilty of comparing myself to others and it never brings good results. It is my hope that my blog will help people, especially young people, have a closer relationship with God before they waste a lot of years feeling either superior or inferior to other people.

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